It’s common to have many questions after a new diagnosis. The BC Healthline community gets it.
Finding out that you havebreast cancercan feel overwhelming — even earth-shattering. It’s entirely expected that you would havemanyquestions about how your life is going to change, what your treatment is going to look like, and what the next steps are.
Some of your questions may have a more straightforward answer your doctor can provide, like “What’s the stage of the cancer?”或“Do I need to talk to a specialist?”
Other questions can be harder to get an answer to, like “How’s this diagnosis going to affect me emotionally?”或“How will my body react to treatment?”
Some questions may not have an answer at all, like “Why is this happening to me?”
Sometimes it can feel as though there’s so much new uncertainty that you don’t even know where to start, or what questions you should be asking.
TheBC Healthlinecommunity knows exactly what it’s like to navigate a new breast cancer diagnosis. Five community members shared the questions they feel are most important to ask your doctor about.
“My advice is to not be shy speaking up, and remember that your choices matter. Find a doctor who listens and works with you.
If I had had the opportunity to earlier, I would’ve asked about things like checking forlymph node spreadand how, if it does spread to my lymph nodes, it would impact my treatment. I would also have inquired about the need for a care team and why it can be beneficial.” — Smacsham
“I would ask about what I can be doingnowto prepare for next steps. For example, if I’m going to have radiation, is there anything I can do now to help down the road like skin care options (lotion versus no lotion) or diet tips that can help make radiation go more smoothly?
Like most people, I’m pretty motivated to do what I can to help myself. It would make me feel better and more proactive to use any waiting time before treatment to get set up for the next stages of the journey.” — KellyMPLS
“我想询问任何测试的结果我哈ve had done. For example, whenlymph nodesare removed and tested and the results come back negative [or] “all clear,” why do I need radiation?
Also, if agenetic testwas negative, what do we know about what could have caused my breast cancer?” — Godsgirl
“I would ask for a detailed explanation of theoncotype score, the reason why it is done, and what it means for my treatment. I would also ask about the rationale for getting, or not getting,chemotherapyand the rationale for getting alumpectomy versus a mastectomy.
Finally, I would also ask about life after active treatment, how to navigate the “new normal,” and how to find support dealing with it. I felt like the long-term implications of treatment were never fully explained to me.” — Anonymous
“Even though you are repeatedly told not to use Dr. Google, you are never given the whole picture unless you ask the right questions.
There are so many different types of treatment out there, but I was only offered what my cancer center and doctor had available. I had to do my own research and ask a lot of questions.
I also had to find a center out of town to get the hypofractionation radiation that I preferred after doing research. The facility in my city did not offer it. If I hadn’t researched and asked for specific therapies, I wouldn’t have known that they were available.” — Islandgirl13
Having a doctor who you feel comfortable approaching with questions is important. If you feel like your doctor isn’t able to provide enough information to help you feel confident in your decisions,getting a second opinioncan be a great idea.
A doctor can be a great resource for insight about treatment, diagnosis, and symptoms. However, there are many aspects of life with breast cancer that even the best doctors may not be able to address.
For these questions — the ones about the impact breast cancer may have on your mental health, or about how to talk to your loved ones about your diagnosis, or about how your relationships may be affected — it can be helpful to hear from people who have been in your shoes.
TheBC Healthlinecommunity is here to listen, share stories, and provide support at every step along the way.
Elinor Hills is an editor at Healthline. She’s passionate about the intersection of emotional well-being and physical health as well as how individuals form connections through shared medical experiences. Outside work, she enjoys yoga, photography, drawing, and spending way too much of her time running.